sulk or shine...

"You can sulk in what was...Or shine in what is..."

(Yours truly...Dani)

I've been writing a lot lately about searching for myself.

I'm digging deep.

I get pulled in different directions.

My thoughts flow freely and my heart is more at peace. 

I've morned a life that was lost for far too long. 

My life.

My married life, it died. 

A life that was all I knew, is gone. 

My soul is feeling at peace.

I'm finding happiness again. Making decisions solely for myself and of course, my daughter. 

My thought process has changed. 

I thought I needed to be loved in order to love myself.

Boy was I wrong. 

I need to love myself in order to love better.

My independence is my strength. 

Being alone is strange. 

But my life as a half is gone...for now. 

I'm ok with it.

Of course I want to be part of something...someone.

But I'm in no rush. 

I know I'm able to love. I believe I love well.

Someone one day will be deserving of that.

But for now...

This "single" life is working well...

I'm finding my place. 

I had two choices.

SULK

or

SHINE

I think I'll shine.